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Abandoned
Hey...ok. so i'm 17 years old, and about 7 weeks ago found out that i'm pregnant. as soon as i told my boyfriend of 2 months (the dad obviously) he split. i havent talked to him since, but i'm friends with some of his friends' friends. (does that make sense?) anyway, now he's selling guns and has 4 girlfriends. he's an asshole. but why cant i stop thinking about him? i still call him and ask around about him, wondering if he even remembers me. i even plan little revenge schemes in my head...like beating his car with a baseball bat. (dont worry i wont! i dont even know where he lives now.) please help me get over this asshole!
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Wow, you know I have an *friend that is a very very similiar situation as you. Okay, so first of all, being pregnant is a huge thing to have to deal with, especially at this age. It's great when you can have the support of the guy the baby is with, but if not there's ways to still work around that and make smart, responsible choices for you and the baby. Of course you are going to have strong emotions and feelings for the guy. But you can't force him to feel the same for you. If he is choosing to be irresponsible and disrespectful, you are better off without him in the long run. I think you just have to keep telling yourself that you are better than that and you don't need to be with someone like that, and if you are keeping the baby you sure as heck don't need him setting that kind of example. If you choose to keep the baby, you will always be tied to this guy...but you shouldn't be in a relationship more than parents with him because you'll just get let down. In the mean time, you need to focus on you (and your baby situation) Take care of you. Stop calling the guy and stop asking about him. I know it's card to pretend you don't care, but often times we have to convince ourselves we don't in order to start progressing. So work on you, make good choices, surround yourself with love and support. You are going to be just fine, I know it. :)
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