okay.. so theres this kid, and we went out for a long time.. and its been a couple months since we broke up and idk everytime i think about him i get butterflies and its just like no one can compare to him.. it just seems like he was so perfect but now its like i never knew him .. i havent talked to him since old home day! and that was in like august! but yeah i mean i know you probably dont know what to say and i mean i cant talk to my friends about this cuz theyd be like YOUR STILL NOT OVER HIMM???? but yeah whateverr i just needed someone to like.. listen to me!
sincerly,
dont know what to dooo! =/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cassiopea answered Saturday August 1 2009, 2:32 pm: Why did you break up? Is it something that could be solved? If you can solve the problem between you two that would be awesome, because it sounds like you really like maybe even love this guy.
If it is a problem you can't solve between each other all you can do is wait. It takes a long time to get over someone like that. You have many options to choose from to try and help yourself on the way to recovery: you could fully invest in having fun with your friends, find a hobby to keep your mind away from him, delete everyting things that remind you of him (facebook or myspace profiles, phone number, msn contact)or you can start dating again and maybe find someone who will help you get over him.
I would definetly do the deleting. It is so much easier to get over someone when you don't have him looking in your face all the time and easier because you won't be tempted to get ahold of him. If your friends say anything say that it takes time to get over people that you really liked. [ Cassiopea's advice column | Ask Cassiopea A Question ]
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