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my bOyfriend.. even though he dont act it
Okay, well like a couple months ago i liked this one friend of mine named Nick. Anyways, just New Years Eve he finally asked me out. we've been going out since, but we never hang out, we barely talk, and in school when we pass eachother he doesnt say anything. hes not shy though, atleast not that it seems. Today he didnt say anything to me until the end of the day when we passed eachother he said "hey" and i stopped him and said "i really need to talk to you" and he goes "well hurry up i hafta be at practice for 2:25 and its 2:20" so i said forget it and walked away, and he said something about he'll talk to me later? I really cant take this, and I cant break up with him because I really really like him a lot. I dont know what to do though, and if I do talk to him I dont know what to say. help? please.
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I think that he's looking to you to be the leader of your relationship. If he's not making any attempts to set up dates with you, then you're going to have to be the one to do it. Find some time when the two of you aren't busy, and set up the date. If this isn't the case, then I'd advise you to have a talk with him when he's not in a hurry.
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first, you guys just started going out, things aren't just going to start happening and guys act werid around their girlfriends so be easy on him. if he is like most guys then he is probably going to be a stand offish because he doesn't know what is allowed yet and he doesn't know how fast or slow you want to move. i do think that you need to talk to him though, make him see that you want things to move just a little bit differently.
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wow, this is pretty much the same thing that happedn to me. the guy i liked finially asked me out on new years eve. now first of all this isnt the smartest move ona guys half becuase he is now obligated to but his new girlfriend a present. from the way hes acting i assume he didnt get you a present, which is dissapointing, but perfectally understandable.
now to the point, you said he was your friend, so i'm guessing you guys talked more than you have now. i'm guessing youre young around 13, 14, so guys have their priorities ina a different order, sports, then girls. it sucks i no, but he will make sure he exells in his spot before he even has time to think about you. (my guy is like this)
its very upsetting he hasent talked to you much, and the only reason that i can think of is that now you are going out he has gotten very shy and self concious. he might not seem shy, but if a guys really likes a girl he could get nervious aound her, and i think this is what has happend to you.
he really shoudl be making an effort to talk to you, but guys will be guys. try calling him and telling him how you feel. its good for him to know this.
like nick, really why dont we talk anymore? ever since we have been going out u have almost ignored me. and he will probably apologise and say he was buisy. he might have really been buisy with a lot on his mind.
he might just be too young for a real relationship. give him time and space (but i mean space as in let him breath, but you can still call and text or im him) if he doesnt start talking to you more, then whats the point of going out with him? even if u like him a lot, if he is being an ass why put yourself through this?
geezzz i'm sry it was soooo long really am
good luck with this
i really hoppe i coudl be of some help and didnt just waste your time!! ahhh
hahaha!
xoxo
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