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Dear Mary,
so i dated this guy for a really long time. we broke up, spent some time apart, then got back together. well over the summer we broke up again and i guess i took it really well considering i didnt the first time. and i thought i was really over him. so the rest of my summer goes great, but when school starts up again, i take one look at him and start missing him again.i played it off as if simply "not being able to forget ur first love" and thought that i would get over him shortly. but, i still cant get him out of my head!! it frustrating because wut we had before felt sooo real and amazing! no i feel like he wont even give me the time of day. and that just makes my self-esteem go down even lower! we used to talk about everything, even when we were broken up. now, we dont even say "hi" in the hallway. its not helping me seeing him everyday in school. it makes my heart hurt 20 times worse than it already is. i dont think i can take this anymore!!!!! i cry alot! all my friends tell me he's not worth it...but wut if he is?!?
^^Tired of being heartbroken^^
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you just need to act like you're over him. even if you arent. tell people you are, be independent for a while and act like you dont need him. the last thing you want to do is be at his feet. take control of the situation, instead of you being there when he needs you, he needs to be waiting there when u need him. get what im saying? it truley sickens me when girls think they need guys to make them happy because its totally untrue! dont cry over this guy, JUST DONT! you have GOT TO stand on your own two feet and do not, i repeat, do not let this guy mess with you anymore!! im not saying you shouldnt like him, but find one person to confide in and tell everyone else you're over him. Even if he IS worth it, let HIM come to YOU
hopefully that helps
-mary
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