Boyfriend that is obsessive while I don't even like him anym
Question Posted Tuesday January 3 2006, 6:49 pm
I have had this boyfriend for a little ovr two months. He is really very obsessive with me and I haven't liked him as more than friends for about a month. Our school dance is coming up soon and he has told me that he wants to kiss me. It would be not only my first kiss but his first kiss also. He is not that great looking but he is really nice and really sweet. i want to stay friends so i can still talk to him on the phone and stuff and have a fun time when hanging out with him but I don't want to be boyfriend gilfriend anymore. He is so obsessive about me that he has even talked about marriage eventually! I'm in midddle school! When he said things like "I can't live without you" I said "Oh I seriously doubt that." Should I break up with ihm or give him yet another chance. If I give him another chance what should I do and should I tell him what i'm feeling? If so, hwo do I tell him that i like him as just a friend and I don't want to be anything more than that for now. Though I might want to get back together in the future. Thanks a bunch!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? askforanswersfromAndie answered Tuesday January 3 2006, 9:24 pm: ok if you really don't like him like that anymore i would let him down slowly like little by little but first tell him what you are feelin like i don't want to kiss yet i am not comfortable with you sayin i love you so much and stuff or you can have a close friend helpo you out with doing this maby even another guy friend like hey dude she seems a little liek distent when you do some of that stuff it looks like to me she wants you to back off a little or what everbut some how you hneed to get that to him and into his head and get it to stay there. also like tell him if he still is not meating the standers or whatever tell him that like youjust want to be friends but with semi benifits. like really close friend best friend kinda thing like to dance talk on the phone hang out outside of school and stuff. hope i helped if you need any thing els you know were to fine me.
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