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best friend or boyfriend?
i know this is long but please help!
i'm a 15 yr old girl.
i've become best friends with this guy alex but i've always had a teenie little thing for him, nothing too big cuz i know how complicated the whole friends to more thing can get..
anyways me and him are also best friends with this girl ashley and she told me that he said he liked me... but then 2 days later he's going out with another girl
now hes single and he's been flirting with me a lot... most people thought we were going out already.. i just don't know if i should really go along with it, would this ruin our friendship? i like him but i don't even know if he's just flirting with me just cuz he can and thinks i won't do anything b/c we're friends or if hes really sincere about it? please help quick!
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Why don't you wait things out a bit, and get him to confess whether he really is sincere about it or if he's just doing it because he can? If you like him back, then I'd say go for it. It's better to take a risk than do nothing and regret it later.
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Well first you should make sure that if you do become more then friends that if something happens and you break you will still be friends. Then after he tells you that see if he really cares about you. Then if he does i would say see if he asks you out but if he doesnt DONT ask him out unless you find out he doesnt have enough confidence than talk to him about it and see if it changes. Good luck!
Madskillz
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If you're worried about ruining your friendship with him by dating, I don't think it would ruin what you guys have because going out would only make you two feel closer. Besides if you feel like the relationship isn't going where you want, and you thought you two were better as friends, you should be the one to let him know first thing and let him down smoothly and tell him you just want to go back to the way it was. That way, you'll be able to see if you guys are a compatible couple, and be able to hold on to your friendship if all falls down. You only live once, it's better to act than regret.
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Alright. Well, you have many choices. You can ask him if he really likes you or not. Or, you can try to find out if your friends Ashley was really lying. Alex might be just flirting with you because he might be one of those boys who flirt with every girl. Also, if you're really shy to him, you can get another friend that you really trust and make her/him ask Alex if he likes you.
If he says no, well get over it! he's not worth it. He was probably one of those jerks. Go to another boy.
Just try your luck. Maybe he really likes you but can't show it!
-AdviceGiverGirl88
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Hummm!Well I would just go for it if you really do like him... If he is really a good friend then it should not ruin anything in your friendship part. I have the same feeling about this boy that I have known scence kindergarden and I have been in the same class with him every year but 3rd grade! I like him and all and sometimes he flirts with me and then other times he trys to make fun of me. I guess boys are just like that when they are not around there friends they will flirt with you. But like I said go for it and see how it goes!
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