i was just wondering about something. because the guy i like have been ♥ almost ♥ involved for a while now. we dated for 5 days but he dumped me cuz he liked someone else .. only to find out that she had a bf. he said he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..
so we were talkin and i was like "since we never really got a chance to try us dating .. do you think we could try it again" and hes like "yah i cood see us datin in the future" so i asked if he was gonna make me wait another 3 months and all he cood come up with was "i honestly dont know" .. but his friend shawn was tellin me how they ♥ ALWAYS ♥ talk about me .. and in study hall (because he sits outside) he cant wait for me to walk by so we can talk ..
so i guess my question is why isn't he doing anything about it if he likes me? why's he draggin it out .. im gettin so confused.
we hung out new years eve from like 9 to 3. he called me and he came to get me on his snow mobile and we rode back to his friend justins house. we both feel asleep (we were layin together on the futon) and then justin and him brough me home at 3. it was so much fun. we flirted really bad but he didnt make any moves. he always tells me im pretty and i have an amazing body or w/e .. guy stuff i guess c(-p ... but he doesnt do anything? does he just not want me? am i do something wrong ..
okay last thing! i promise =) .. sorry its so long. but today in study hall he was walkin by my locker while i was there. and he's like wanderin the halls jeez what did i tell you about that. and then shawns like no no shes goin to class. and i stopped walkin and started to open my locker and cody's like she's goin to her locker you dumb ass and then they laughed and he kinda just stood there and looked at me for a minute. not a weird look but just intent on lookin at me .. and then hes like ill see you in a bit and walked away. with shawn .. what's that suppose to mean
its like soo confusing .. he says he likes me and he cood see us together .. but he doesn't do anything about it .. hows that work?
(( and new years justin and zach kept callin us love birds and hed look at me and smile .. and not say anything to his friends ))
i think hes juss screwing w/ me .. i dont know .. :-/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iluvhim answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:33 pm: aww, don't you just hate boys sometimes?! lol. yeah so, he odviously likes you..*squeal* yay, and he wants to be with you, so you take charge. some guys like it when a girl can speak her mind. yeah, i know the ideal thing would be to just walk up and give him the best kiss he's ever had, but I mean, seriously, what girl in her right mind could manage to get up the guts to do that?? I would like, be soo happy if I had he guts to do that. It's odvious you like him, tell him. Heres what I would do: walk up to him, say hey zach...or whatever his name is.. [sorry i didn't catch it..]I like you, a lot. How do you feel about me? Then wait for him to answer.
BUT DON'T ASK HIM IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS! thats always, the worst worst worst thing you can do to a guy. I really hope this helped, because after a couple minutes this was alll I could come up with.
I'm soo sorry if it didn't help much!
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