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Question Posted Monday January 2 2006, 3:57 pm

and i was just wondering about something. because the guy i like have been ♥ almost ♥ involved for a while now. we dated for 5 days but he dumped me cuz he liked someone else .. only to find out that she had a bf. he said he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..

so we were talkin and i was like "since we never really got a chance to try us dating .. do you think we could try it again" and hes like "yah i cood see us datin in the future" so i asked if he was gonna make me wait another 3 months and all he cood come up with was "i honestly dont know" .. but his friend shawn was tellin me how they ♥ ALWAYS ♥ talk about me .. and in study hall (because he sits outside) he cant wait for me to walk by so we can talk ..
so i guess my question is why isn't he doing anything about it if he likes me? why's he draggin it out .. im gettin so confused.

we hung out new years eve from like 9 to 3. he called me and he came to get me on his snow mobile and we rode back to his friend justins house. we both feel asleep (we were layin together on the futon) and then justin and him brough me home at 3. it was so much fun. we flirted really bad but he didnt make any moves. he always tells me im pretty and i have an amazing body or w/e .. guy stuff i guess c(-p ... but he doesnt do anything? does he just not want me? am i do something wrong ..


okay last thing! i promise =) .. sorry its so long. but today in study hall he was walkin by my locker while i was there. and he's like wanderin the halls jeez what did i tell you about that. and then shawns like no no shes goin to class. and i stopped walkin and started to open my locker and cody's like she's goin to her locker you dumb ass and then they laughed and he kinda just stood there and looked at me for a minute. not a weird look but just intent on lookin at me .. and then hes like ill see you in a bit and walked away. with shawn .. what's that suppose to mean


its like soo confusing .. he says he likes me and he cood see us together .. but he doesn't do anything about it .. hows that work?


(( and new years justin and zach kept callin us love birds and hed look at me and smile .. and not say anything to his friends ))

i think hes juss screwing w/ me .. i dont know .. :-/


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hopelessly_devoted answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 5:19 pm:
i think he likes you he just chickens out on a relationship at waaaaaaaaaaay bad times.

give him a chance?

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secretcrushx3 answered Monday January 2 2006, 5:34 pm:
wow your right it is confusing but because he broke up with you from that other girl she might be the problem. It's 100% possible that he really likes you but still have feelings for that other girl. He's probably waiting till hes completely over her so you have all of his love instead of just half of it. He'll come around eventually and all of these smiles and things his friends are telling you theyre all signs that he likes you he really does so he's just waiting for the right time but don't worry keep talking and flirting and having fun with him and sweety you'll have him so hooked on you he'll forget she was ever there. Good luck with it and if you need anymore help just message me.

xo <3 alisha

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ONExWiSH answered Monday January 2 2006, 4:03 pm:
I think he's scared to get involved in a relationship right now. It seems like he wants you but he's scared it may ruin your friendship if you go out again. Sometimes your friend may seem like he likes you, but he doesn't want to do anything about it because he's scared it may ruin the friendship you have and he still wants to be your friend no matter what. I wouldn't worry though because he may end up getting closer to you and you guys may go out sometime in the future. I'd let it go, just keep hanging out with him and flirting with him and showing him that you like him. Just keep flirting and give him hints to know you like him. Maybe he'll realize that and he may get up the courage to ask you out. If he talks about you a lot then apparently he has feelings for you but he's scared to show them.


Hope I helped and good luck with what you guys end up doing. <3

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