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i am 14 years old, and i am really starting to like this kid. buh the thing is, that he has a girlfriend. another thing is that they both cheat on each other, and theyre only together because they feel lonely without each other. i get really upset because he flirts with me and i really cant flirt back because he has a girlfriend. they have been going out for 2 years already . ugh this is so confusing = / hope you can help
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Hey. I'm sorry to hear that, but honestly, I think you should forget about him and move on.
I know what it's like to like somebody and have to forget about them. It's hard, but it's the best thing for you to do. Why?
1) He has a girlfriend. It's never a good idea to just wait around for someone to break off their current relationship. Besides, if he liked you enough, wouldn't he have done it already?
2) He's CHEATING on his current girlfriend. Old habits die hard. Don't assume that he's going to suddenly be extremely faithful to you. I mean, honestly. If he DOES end up going out with you, the second he's "unhappy" he'll just cheat on you. Do you really want that?
I think it's in your best interest to just put him out of your mind. You deserve better.
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Hey there
Well regardless of the situation, one should never go after someone who is already with someone else, no matter how their relationship is going. The simple fact that this guy already has a girlfriend and cheats on her doesnt mean you can do things with him. Hes in a relationship. Whatever he does with his relationship is his business and in this case, problem because they both cheat.
Now im not saying you wanna take him away from his girl or trying to get physical with him, just explaining how things should be. In your case, still dont flirt with him. Its not right to flirt with someone else's man no matter how bad their relationship is or how they choose to treat it. He needs to have more respect for his girlfriend.
I know you may like this guy a lil but stop now before anything further happens.
Hope i helped.
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