HI, ok so my boyfriend drinks and smokes alot. and when he was around me he's always pushy. not as in violence.. hes trying to get down my pants and all this other stuff and i dont know what to do. can u help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Hobbies category? Maybe give some free advice about: Theater? xo_Lovely_xo answered Sunday January 1 2006, 4:40 pm: well it seems like all your boyfriend has on his mind when he's drunk and smoking is maybe sex. now what you need to do is u need to talk to him. and really tell him what he's doing and how it makes you feel. i would talk to him when he's by himself and not drink and not smoking. that way you know for sure he's actually listening to u and its not just going through one ear and out the other. and i mean some guys are like that, but there are so many nice and none pushy guys out there. If he keeps doing it you need to move on no matter how much you love/like him....u need a guy that understands what your talking about and see's what he's doing to you. i hope this helps. [ xo_Lovely_xo's advice column | Ask xo_Lovely_xo A Question ]
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