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Question Posted Saturday December 31 2005, 4:29 am

hey i was the one asking you stuff last night about how my gf didnt have a reason for reaking up. while 2 reasons she doesnt care about my feelings but she still wants to be friends because the day after she broke up she went and made out with her ex....the person i hate the most. and the second is because she doesnt care about his feelings either and she said she doesnt want a bf she just wants to make out...anyway i was just asking for yur advice on the situation.
o and she might have gotten mononucleosis from him....serves her right. omg thats mean.


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Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday December 31 2005, 4:39 am:
Haha. That comment about mono at the end made me laugh. It is mean, but you have every right to feel that way.
I hate to say it, but it sounds to me like she's really not worth your time. She doesn't sound like she's looking for anything serious, and if she "just wants to make out," let her. It sucks, but you really have no say in what she does with whom anymore. You sound like a caring kind of guy - she may realize in the end that she made a huge mistake breaking it off.
What you'd have to decide then is if you want to risk her hurting you again or not. Relationships involve risk anyway, but there is a certain amount of control you can have over the situations you let yourself fall into.
She still wants to be friends? That's cool, but only agree to it if you feel you can talk to her now without feeling awkward or making her feel awkward.
The ball's in your court, so to speak. What happens is pretty much up to you now. Honestly, though, I say move on. This girl sounds like she doesn't know what the hell she wants, and if she's willing to break up with a good guy to "just make out" with others...
Good luck
-Siren =)

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