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ik you dont kno me but i read your answer to someones question and i think you give pretty good advice so i was just gonna ask you somethin.
well my gf and i just recently broke up cuz she said i was boring, then she said because she didnt want a bf, then she said because she liked us as friends better. i was gonna ask do you think she left me for someone else and doesnt even care about me anymore or does she really not know why we broke up. thanx anyway i rate high.
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It honestly sounds to me like she doesn't know why she broke up with you. She gave you so many reasons, it seems like she's not sure which one's real. Either that, or she doesn't have nerve to tell you the real reason.
It's also possible that all those reasons are true and she's just trying to overjustify herself.
I can only speculate, though, since I don't know either of you. What you might do is ask her to think about it, and tell her you can handle hearing the real reason - you just want to know what it is.
As for her still caring about you, does she still contact you? Do you contact her? It's hard to say with the information I have.
People are complex. We have "instincts" and often feel a "need" to do what we "think" is right. She may have just followed her gut instinct on the breakup and be completely unable to explain it.
For now, I would ask her once more to explain her reasoning to you - maybe in an e-mail instead of talking to you. Sometimes, it's easier to talk if you're not talking directly to the person.
Make no assumptions, but don't push her if she admits that she's not sure of her reasoning.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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