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16/f. Well my problem is with my boyfriend. He is 18 and I really do care about him. We have been going out for about 2 months and things are just not going so well. Like i said i really do care about him but it seems that our relationship is falling apart. The beginning of our relationship was what i thought was perfect. Well it's only been two months so i guess it is still the beginning, but still it seems like everything is starting to change, for the worse, and i can't stand it. I wanna be with him more than anything but its starting to seem like he doesn't wanna be with me. He barely answers my phone calls and never calls me, but when we do talk it seems like everything is fine until he starts acting like he doesn't wanna talk to me any more, which makes me feel kinda unwanted. We used to talk everyday and he would make me feel like i was the only girl in his life and nobody else matters, but recently its like im the only one who doesn't matter. I am just sooo sick of trying with him but i don't wanna loose him. It would break my heart if we didn't make it. Even when we were with each other in person he was so affectionate towards me and now it seems when ever i see him either he is too busy to notice me or he just doesn't want to talk to me. what should i do. BREAKING UP WITH HIM IS NOT AN OPTION. I hope
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AHHH!!!! i have the exact same problem now! my boyfriend is doing the same thing,, and i can not ever leave him.. it would kill me i love him so much! what you should do is this..dont call him for a few days.. he'll start calling you all the time because he'll be like "whats going on" but dont answer everytime he calls.. just... maybe every other time bepending on how many times he calls.. and when your tlking to him say your going out with friends but dont say where then dont call him all night.. he'll think of you as more interesting.. he'll get out of his "non responsive" phase and he'll come back around.. at leave thats what i hope will happen... i wish i can help more but i have the same problem,, so at least you know your not anywhere near alone on this.. ll guys do it.. and its usually to the girls that really truly love them.. i'm sure he loves you.. just play a little game of cat and mouse and he'll come around
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okay he's obviously playing hard-to-get..if that's possible for a guy. Try doing what he is and make him want you more. If that doesn't work then talk to him and tell him you aren't feeling like he likes you anymore and get him to talk.
ALSOOO..I know how you feel!! Except the guy that is two years apart from me, is younger not older. It may be kind of different from what you are talking about. I think you're talking about like if you say I love you to him he may not say anything (not in person of course) and if it IS in person when you say it, he says it back not sounding very sure of saying "I love you too." If this is how you feel let me know because it's going on with me, only I'm not going out with the guy. lol sorry and I hope I helped a little!
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13/f hey Im going threw the same thing THE NOT WONTING TO TALK,THE NEVER ANSWERING HARDLY,THENEVER CALLING ME,THE TO BUSY PART AND EVERYTHING I KNOW IM YOUNG BUT STILL I WONT A GOOF B/F 2.BUT heres what I did First I Talked To him.I Told him How i Felt and How I Didnt really feel Like He liked me,It Helped For ABout 1 Week Then The samething happen!!..I TOLD HIM THAT I REALLY DIDNT WONT TO DATE IF IT WAS GOING TO BE LIKE THAT AND HE SAID IT DIDNT MATTER HE DIDNT CARE.Well That Made me Mad So We Ended up Breaking Up..we didnt talk for about 1 week stright it killed me but I wasnt bought to call him back.So I Waited for him to call me.He Did But I wasnt home...I DIdnt call back but he called me again the next day 20 Times.I Wasnt home So...But I Got His Text Message that Said call me so I did he..I made him feel really bad and then we ended up dating again he Said sorry and said that he really liked me so... Hope I helped...
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i think you two being in 2 different grades is part of the problem. i really dont think that he knows that you care for him as much as you do. you need to find out if he cares for you too. i used to have that problem about 3 or 4 months into my relationship with my current boyfriend. but now things couldnt be better. you need to let him know that you care and that you are always there for him. make each other aware of your likes and dislikes. things do change and sometimes they arent always what you wish them to be. just tell him how you feel.
XO KALIE
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Is he going to start his last semester as a senior soon? If so, he may have a lot on his mind and that is why he is acting the way he is acting. However, that doesn't make your situation better. I think that for a little while you need to give him his space. Not break up with him, but a chance to see his friends and get through whatever it is he is going through. Do you have plans together for new years? If so, make it a fun night and don't ask him whats wrong or stuff like that. Be fun, have fun, things will work itself out hopefully.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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If breaking up is not option then da onlypossible other one is to talk to him about. Dont be shy with it. Let him know that your a big woman who takes strong hold of her feelings and oes appreciate it. He thinks because he's 18 now that he's to big to be dealin with someone whose only 16. Turnin 18 is like turning 13. Yuo try to leave the past behind. But you gotta show him that just cause he enter a new stage doesnt mean hes gonna pass you by. GURL YOU BETTA LET HIM KNOW!
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