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hey okay i am confused on what to do. i do not know how to tell if my boyfriend is cheating. okay i am 17 and he is 20 and he is the type of guy who is real about things.i mean he says it like it is. and he says that he would never cheat on me and if he did cheat i would have to give him a reason to cheat. ell how can i tell if he is telling the truth? he is always talking to other girls and he says they are just friends. but he walks out of he room when they call. his ex keeps on calling him and he says she is kick ass and that she knows he has a girlfriend. but why does she keep calling? please help me figure out if my boyfriend is cheating. we have only been together for 2 in a half months.
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He may not be cheating, but he isn't making you feel confident about yourself or the relationship, so that is basically kind of the same thing in a way. Tell him that you believe him when he says he isn't cheating, but tell him that the phone calls and stuff make you feel insecure. Don't tell him he can't talk to these girls, but try and get him to see your point of view. If he's like that's crazy, or gets defensive... that should be your signal that things aren't working.... if he is responsive to your feelings, thats a good thing.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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To tell you the truth from what you are telling me he is SO CHEATING. Girl, if he still talks to his ex and always leaves when talking to girls then he is not being honest to you about something. It doesn't necessarley have to be cheating, but he might be keeping a secret from you. Don't completely dump him right away, but really really explain to him how you feel or do it the spy way. Go into his phone if he left it at your house and call the girls and ask them how they know him and whats going on. Just a suggestion!!
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Trust him.
I have guy friends. Heck, my best friend is a guy! And my boyfriend has female friends. Talks to them on the phone as well. But I know he's not cheating on me.
If you're afraid that he is cheating on you, ask him why his ex-girlfriend keeps calling him.
He walks out of the room when they call? So what. I don't like to be around other people when I'm on the phone. Even if it's just with my MOM.
I was on vacation and my boyfriend called me and I didn't want to be around anyone so I sat in the hallway of the hotel in my pajamas and talked to him.
If he says it like it is, I think that he would've already broken up with you if he were 'cheating.'
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