okay, well there this boy im like madly in love with, haha, but he lives way far away, over the past week he came and stayed with me, it was perfect. it couldnt of been any better, and i was completely comfortable around him and i loved it, we had dry sex like twice and did a few other things, but even after that in no way was it weird, this is sounding kinda skanky, but i'm not, one bit. well heres the thing, im 16, and hes 20. he doesnt care about the age and neither do i, neither does my mom, or the rest of my family, i can tell he really loves me, and he's just so perfect. he wont be MOVING here until next year though, 8 months to be exact, and i dont know what im going to do, should i wait? i mean, ive waited long enough to see him.. 2 years. whats another 8 months right? but these last 2 days with out him have been hell, ive done nothing but cry & think about him, and talk about him, haha i cant get him off my mind.
but im kinda rambleing now. :] i just wanted to see your opinion on this. do you think its bad that hes 20? and do you think i should wait. by then.. he'll be 21. ill be 17. haha IM GETTING UP THEREEE :]:]:] bummer. lol but thank you.
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BL0NDExAMBiiTii0N answered Sunday December 25 2005, 4:42 pm: well i think that if you're really in love with him (which it sounds like you are! lol) then you should wait for him. I know it's a long time, but it will go by fast if you keep yourself busy. I don't think the age difference is too big of a deal, because it's only 4 years. my parents are 2 years apart, but some couples are like 8 or 10 years apart! as you get older, i'm sure the age difference won't be such an issue. like you said - you've waited a year and i'm sure that during that time you desperately wanted him and thought you couldn't make it, but you did .. you can make it another 8 months =) stay strong! ♥ [ BL0NDExAMBiiTii0N's advice column | Ask BL0NDExAMBiiTii0N A Question ]
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