Question Posted Saturday December 24 2005, 5:00 am
ohkay well, i used to talk to this guy a lot on the phone. he liked me for a little while and it took him a long time just to tell me he liked me. and i asked why it did and he said "i didnt wanna hurt your feelings." ididnt understand how my feelings would get hurt and he said "well, if i told you i liked you.. and if i start to lose feelings for you.." and so on. well that EXACTLY what happened. he kinda stopped talking to me, and i like him alooooooot. help? 5's on all the good ones.
Think about it, if he liked you and then lost feelings for you, what would you do if you guys and been boyfriend and girlfriend?
He'd be a Mojor Jerk, right? Well, boys= Not Worth Your Valuable Time! [ Iunderstand's advice column | Ask Iunderstand A Question ]
sweet08dreams answered Saturday December 24 2005, 11:24 am: guys are sometimes the most complicated beings on earth. my advice is be open with him. ask him how he feels. be like do you like me or am i wasting my time? tell him you want the truth. i know you must like this guy, but look at his reactions to see what he's feeling eventhough it might not be what he's saying. after you bring it out in the open, you can see if its really worth trying for. be reasonable with yourself. i have seen friends try for guys that dont feel the same for looonnnggg periods of time and it just makes matters worse. if you can tell he doesnt feel the same way, you have to get over him, there are many fish in the sea. but if he says he likes you and can tell he feels that way then go with it and see where it takes you.
hope i helped
xo Heather [ sweet08dreams's advice column | Ask sweet08dreams A Question ]
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