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DRAMA - BOYS
im a girl, my names alexa and im 13. ok well my ex best friend, we were best friends for 2 years and there was this boy named lets call him mitchel. he liked me & she convinced me to go out with him because she was going out with his best friends and she was like yeah we can go to all his hockey games together and everything i was like ok that sounds cool, so i went out with him. come halloween night, we got into a fight. its already a month and 3 weeks into the relationship. my former best friend gets mad at me for going out with him! so i was fighting with her and i ended up getting dumped and he asked her out! i ended up making up with him and we were friends again, but for some reason i cant make up with my ex best friend its so bad she fights with my new best friend and talks about how she doesnt live with her father cause hes on drugs and things, but so is her mother! but anyways now he likes me again and i thought i liked him - but i was wrong. but i told him i liked him! and he told my friends he was going to ask me out on christmas day. but i cant go out with him because i think im falling in love with this kid - lets call him steven, and i dont want to ruin my chances with him!!! what should i do please help me!
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well i'm gonna pu this in bullets so i don't get confused.
*you don't have to go out with someone just because they like you and they asked you out. if he chose your friend instead of you, his GF, he needs to reassess his priorities. i would give it time...
*I don't know what your ex best friend said but that's messed up
* I've been in a situation like this...they couple broke up and i helped the guy...in one case, he did ask me out and all but he already hated the girl...the other guy didn't ask me out because this whole choosing one over the other is mostly the guy's decision.. not just the other girls' so don't go with 'mitchel'.
*i suggest having a heart to heart with this guy...get into his head!
*i know its hard before high school but try and avoid the whole thing all together... getting into a girl fight isn't gonna increase you chances of anything positive... let the guy find someone else to get involved with (you're 13...you've got time, trust me) and your ex best friend...avoid her and tell your new best friend not to take anything she says seriously.
*steven...don't get in too deep yet. let all the other stuff die down before you start something new.
feel free to ask anytime hun! its what i'm here for! <3
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