Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 6:37 pm
I was kind of with this guy for about 8 monthes. We broke up about 2 motnhes ago because he was cheating on me. He has not tried to contact me in any way, and neither have I. I still think about him almost every day and miss him, although I'm pretty sure he has a new girlfriend. Because it's the new year coming up, I want this year to start off well and I kind of want to get closure with him, or at least try to be friends (he doesn't go to my school so I never see him)
A) Do you think this is a good idea?
B) if so, how should I initiate a conversation?
Please help me, I am so confused
thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? scorpio117 answered Saturday December 24 2005, 6:19 am: Hey, i know it's really hard after a relationship. You'll miss a guy and stuff...
But trust me, you will stop missing him. You have to get busy in other stuff and such.
First thing you gotta do, Get busy in other things. Spend more time with your friends or more time alone. Join clubs. Get a hobby. Start a project. Learn new stuff. Do everything to be busy, and then you'll stop missing him. You will get him out of your mind. If you're comfortable being alone, it will be easier for you to start talking to him.
If you want, you can talk to him and start a conversation. talk about music, friends, school...
Be close friends before you can get "intimate" again. [ scorpio117's advice column | Ask scorpio117 A Question ]
stressed answered Thursday December 22 2005, 10:15 pm: I think it is a good idea in a way!!!but my question to you is whywould you still want to be friends with someone who cheated on you!but if you really love him then i can understand that!try to call him!if you have his number that is really easy!and if you dont then it is probilly in the phone book or you could ask one of his friends!and when you talk to him just say you have been thinking about him and was wondering if he wanted to hang out!!!
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