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facing my girlfriend's dad
ok my girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and her dad never talks to me just gives me evil stares. i talked to my girlfreind about it and she says its because her sister was raped at the age of 14 and became pregnant. he doesnt trust me. is there anyway i can get him to trust me more?
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Just in front of him, don't hold hands/be all touchy touchy with your girlfriend. You want to show him that you can be a good boyfriend with out doing that kind of stuff, y'know? Show her lots of respect, too. Don't hit on her and call her hot and then like slap her ass and that stuff. Just say, please & thank you when needed. Compliment their house & things you like about it. Say how great your girlfriend is at certain things. Don't be rude or anything. That's how fathers are, seriously. My dad's like that, and my sister was never raped. He doesn't agree with boys - I'm daddys little girl. Maybe your girlfriend should have a talk with her mom & dad about this stuff? Just because it seems four months is a long time, and he shouldn't STILL be giving you evil stares!
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Most important treat his daughter with respect and stuff..be there for her and take care of her..show him you are not that kind of person that did that to his other daughter..sometimes it just takes time..soon, he will realize that you are different and he will start trusting you and start to like you!! I Hope I helped..Im always here if ya need anything!! Good Luck!!
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Cheyenne 14/f
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After he had something like that happen, it will be hard for him to accept anyones trust. It might take a while and don't take it so personaly. If you were a dad, you would understand what he is going through. Just give it some time & let him get to know you better.
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