ok my mom is always with a differ guy and i know she doesnt want to be sigle all her life but i try to get along with her and she dosent even try to get a long with me i cant tell her ANYTHING about me and my life or what goes on at school and she believes all the rumors around my neiabor hood that say i am a slut and people go up to my moms work and says watch your daughter and i dont know what to do please HELP with every thing and my dad said he was going to get me this weekend the weekend before x-mas but he didnt well i am very up set please help and my mom is with a guy that is still married and she has been spending more time with him instead of us well the guy is getting a devorice but my mom needs to work with us and trying to buy a house we rent and we have food stamps and my mom is working all the time and i never have time to do anything and i get treated bad and i help her with everything please help me !!!!!!!! theres 6 of us i am the oldest 14
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Docholliday answered Sunday December 18 2005, 12:00 am: Man I am really sorry. Have you tried sitting down and talking to her, just make her sit down with you and tell her what you are feeling, calmly, no yelling, yelling tens to mess up everything. I know you shouldn't have to act like an adult at your age, the same thing happened to me, I was pushed into be an adult to soon, its not that bad, but its kind of emotionally rocky. If your Mom ignores you, then maybe you can go to a school counselor or something, I mean if you don't feel safe or you just can't take anymore responsibilty, you should tell someone, its not your fault that you have to use food stamos or that your mom doesn't pay attention to you. Your mom needs to get herself together and take care of you, thats her responsibilty. Make sure you have really good friends to back you up when you need them, a sholder to cry on you know? Good luck with everything, and I hope I helped some, my e-mail is on my advice column if you ever wanna talk. [ Docholliday's advice column | Ask Docholliday A Question ]
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