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is he a virgin?
okay so my bf of 6 months and i have decided neither of us want sex yet why rush it and take the excitement away for when its time. well all along he has been telling me hes a virgin. till today he suddenly tells me that in 6th grade some girl and him skipped class. he licked all over her upper body and she was like riding him while he was pantsless/boxerless and he kinda went in her like an inch of him then he shoved her off..and she then had a "Reaction" soo what am i to think of this?
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Don`t worry about it..i would consider him still a virgin cuz he didn`t exactly do her.. ♥ Dez
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Well, it depends on what he thinks of it. If it was an accident I can see how he would call himself a virgin. The licking and the "reaction" don't mean anything. Virginity is defined as not having had intercourse. There was definitely penetration and even though it was an accident it still happened. Both people involved took the risk of it happening. He's technically not a virgin, but if he wants to consider himself one let him. Some people think of virginity differently than others. Be careful with this subject, he may be afraid of sex since it happened accidentally before. Don't pressure him into it. The accident may have made him realize that it's not worth the risk. It's really good that he told you about this, he definitely didn't have to. Instead of thinking "he lied to me" try to think of it as "he told me the truth about something that he didn't want to tell anyone. He trusts me that much now and our relationship has become stronger." Try to think of it from his point of view too. What if that had happened to you? Would you consider yourself a virgin? Would you have told him? Instad of getting all up in arms about it, be understanding and try to help him through this. He probably is suffering from some emotional pain because of it. Reassure him that what happened was an accident, it's okay, and that he is still a virgin. I wish you the best of luck!
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that he isnt a virgin anymore, and that hes been hiding this from you. Unless, he was trying to make you jealous, cuz usualy guys dont go into detail with their girlfriends
best of luck ♥
♥ Elizabeth
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