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well, when i was 2months old, my moma nd dad split apart because he beat her, and well, its 15 years laterr.. and i feel like ive grown up with out a daad.. when i was in 1st grade.. people would say, what does your daddy do for a living,, and id be like.. i dont have a daddy, and then like 5th grade and on.. theyd say.. what does you daddy do for a living? "sell drugs and tdo coke" IN 5TH GRADE!? and i dont know.. from like 4th grae and up.. you know that song... butterfly kisses?.. well, i listened to it and cried. every night. when ever it came on. id try to call my dad, and no answer.. this month, it will be 11 months he has been sober, ina ll ways, and hes to busy with his new daughter, and work. and he calls me every here and there.. IMs me in the morning.. to piss me off, and wake me up.. but thats like it.. and i dont know.. when i go to friends houses and they are all lovely dovey i get all teary eyed.. and wish i had that growning up.. and i dont know.. i miss him, and i dont know how to tell him.
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My Dad wasn't an alcholic or anything. but he hasn't been there my whole life. He calls every so often but I don't bother with him. Our situations are alot different, but theres really no advice. Nothing anyone can ever say or do will wipe away those tears for good, and i'm sorry you've had to go through this. But take the time you have now, catch up if you can. Wake up early, and try to talk to him, wwhen he IMs you to wake you up, IM him and wake him up lol do what you can to get to know your dad and who the sober "dad" is. So you don't grow into an adult who never really learned who her father was. Good Luck, I hope this helps a little.
Dr. Minkus
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