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friends for never
ok well long story short. me and my friend lets say her name is kim. We were really good friends in the beggining of the year and one day she came over for a sleepover and my mom goes how about u guys plan a christmas party. We were all excited and stuff. but as we got closer to the christmas party I feel like "kim" is planing everything without me. And I am scared to tell her or I have tryed and now we are in a big fight. I called her yesterday and said hey kim what did I do wrong and she started spazzing out at me and I started to cry and get all depressed. she says that I am stealing her friends which I am not. some of my friends are telling her lies about me, which kim belives. I want to be friend. and the christmas party is in a week. I have no clue what to do. We are both guilty for this fight. but she takes it all on me and says she did not do anything. and it makes me pretty low. She is talking about me behind my back. please help me. I am getting really deppressed and I am scared that I might do something.
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first off, just take a deap breath. and let out the air. you first need to relax. you said you talked to kim yesterday. dont call her or anything until .. Monday. that will give you both time think about everything.
It's really good that you know that you are both equally to blame for this fight, and she will come to realize this sooner or later. but dont go and point out all of her faults, because it will make her feel really low aswell.
you said that you and kim were really good friends, so you will get over this.. if you let your selfs.
when you talk to her just let her know that you are really sorry for all of the things that you've done. and as for the friend part just let her know that you really like her friends, because she's got good taste, and you wanted them to be your friends too. let her know how much she means to you, and how much you want to be friends again.
what you shouldn't say is that she is wrong, or not right. and that she is being stupid. because that will get her more mad.
time will heal this, you guys are just having some speed bumps in your friend ship and if you alowe your selfs you will get through them.
i wish you the best of luck ♥
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