I had something really upsetting happen to me at school today. Well I am 14 years old and in grade 8. A guy that I don't know very well has been getting chummy with one of my friends. She totally embarassed me yesterday and said that Jack wanted to go out with me. She said it right in front of him!! Well I was put on the spot and went a little red. Jack wouldnt look at me and I never answered. T really didnt know what to say and he didnt actually ask me it was my friend.
Well the next day Jack and another guy walked up to me. His friend was laughing and said "did Jack ask you out yesterday'? I again felt put on the spot and didnt know what to say. Jack never said anything again so I said "yes".
Well then Jack said "I never asked you out you BITCH! And walked away with his friend and they were both laughing.
I feel totally humiliated.
Why didnt he speak up yesterday? And wouldnt he be more angry at my friend for putting us both on the spot? Or maybe they were all in on the joke?
Maybe they were playing a joke but it seems to me like he was just too embarrassed to admit what he'd said, or even speak up at all, so he took it out on you.
Obviously not worth your time or worry.
Go back to school, if anyone mentions it too you tell them that he is a confused little boy and you're glad that the rumor that he wanted to go out with you wasn't true. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
DefinedEyes answered Friday December 9 2005, 12:30 pm: Guys are so incredibly mean,
let me tell you though, once you hit highschool, you'll find that you have a lot of friends,and they will always be there for you. Especially when things like this happen.
I dont know whats the big deal with being in middleschool, and how your friends cant stand up for you. I would feel probably embarassed too, but let it go. And act like you dont care, or let them know how they hurt you.
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