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Pls help We broke up about 9mnths ago now he is contacting me on a daily basis he said he wants to talk to me but he does'nt know how and when & I know its not gonna be easy he broke my heart in bad way now I can see he is so scared of me we sms each other so me I want to talk coz I am tired of this thing pretending as if we Ok but the problem Yesterday he did'nt sms me & I prefer not to initiate anything in this situation am I doing a write thing or am I making it dificult for him because he is so scared he must be, I can take him back but under so many conditions coz I never stop liking him he is a good man, so What must i do initiate the chat or back off
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Well you need to decide first of all what sort of relationship you want from him.
You haven't said what he did to break your heart but judging by what you have said, I'm guessing it was pretty bad.
It's entirely up to you but if you want to give him a second chance, lay down the ground rules and let him know if he does anything like he did to break your heart before again, that's it and there will be no getting back together.
If you only want to be friends, you need to tell him this. Even though he hurt you, if he is showing remorse for what he did, you need to show that you are the bigger person and forgive him for what he did, even if it doesn't mean you'll get back with him. Then tell him there's no way you want to be any more than friends, that he hurt you badly and you're not quite ready to speak to him again yet.
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