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im a freshman boy in high school and im in a realationship with a girl tht ive known for a long time weve been going out for 7 months and are parents know each other also. Although i still like her i dont think the relationship is working out and theres another girl who i think i like but i not sure wht do i do
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So she's kind of like.. the girl next door? The girl you & your family have known forever..
Okay, let me see what you just said.
You've been going out with this girl for 7 months. You don't think the relationship is working out. & You *think* you like another girl, but your *not sure*.
Those stars are important. You're not positive if you like this girl or not. But there's one thing I'm wondering.. Why don't you think this relationship is working between the two of you? Is it because you think you like this other girl? Or is it a reason pertaining to your girlfriend? These are questions you have to ask yourself..
So if it's something that has to do with your girlfriend, try to work it out with her. You've been going out for 7 months, it shows that you really have something. If you had an argument or something, try to fix it. Often, teens don't understand that when two people are in love, and they have a disagreement or something of that kind, they WORK IT OUT. They are in love.. They don't break it up over some little thing.
Is she acting differently than she used to? Is that why you don't think it's working out? If she is, for example, acting depressed or maybe a little snobby/moody, try to talk to her. Don't be all up in her face though, just subtly ask her what the problem is. If she doesn't want to talk, she doesn't want to talk. But just let her know that you are there for her if she needs anything. Note that if she doesn't want to talk the first time, and this keeps happening, you'll need to try to talk to her again, or this relationship might not work (because the lack of communication between you two).
Alright, back to the two options (Is it because of your girlfriend, or the girl you like?). If your girlfriend has done nothing different, and you don't think that it will work out BECAUSE you like this other girl, then you really need to think about it. You only THINK you like this girl, you're not sure. Think about this: Are you happy with your girlfriend? Is she your world? Or does this other girl interfere..at least in your mind? If it is because of the girl you like, do you think you could give up on your girlfriend for the other girl? You REALLY need to think about it if that is the reason..
Yeah, so those are some things to think over. Because you really need to think it over.. Hope it works out the way you want it to :)
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