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how to be more outgoing..
well im really shy in the beginning when i meet someone..especially if its a guy and i think he is hot! and i always say to myself when im going to meet new people that im going to be outgoing and not care what they think..but then when i actually meet them im like really shy and dont talk alot and i think this is a reason why i dont get alot of boyfriends =( then like those people always assume that im shy all the time, but its just most when i first meet them then after that im not really.but my friends are all outgoing and i try to hard to be too its just not working. do you have any advice? because ive tried like working up my self-esteem but it doesnt seem to be working. i always freeze up and say nothing. and thats probably why im not good with guys. well sorry if this is too long but i just needed advice on this because its been really affecting me lately.. thanks alot!
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I don't know what exactly to say to make you be outgoing. You just have to do it. Make yourself be outgoing. I used to be really shy, but I kept telling myself just be outgoing & be fun & no one will think bad about you. You just think people will say something, be yourself though. If you are having fun then being outgoing will be no problem. It's really normal when people are kind of shy around people they just meet. Well, I know I am. Just talk to them, make jokes and just laugh.
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