Question Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 10:00 am
okay, so i took your advice and here's what happened... his girlfriend got mad at him, told him that she wanted to break up...he got mad at me and said i needed to stay away from her. then i tried to make them understand by talking to them but they just got annoyed...hum, so now i'm really mad but i don't know why. it might have something to do with knowing that my best friend is desperate for love and she's manipulative...am i wrong? i don't know what to do anymore...everything i do just makes more people mad. like, i quit my job and everything...but what really sucks is my managers wouldn't let me quit...they told me they'd keep scheduling me to work and we could figure out what was going on...so yesterday i ended up working until 7. my best friend's girlfriend worked until 8. my best friend wanted his girlfriend to go to one of our school dances but it started at 7:30. so he asked me to switch shifts with her but i wouldn't because i had to go out and get some stuff for my chemistry project. (are you still with me? don't wanna confuse you too much...) she ended up telling the managers a big lie about how her parents are away and the only way she was getting home was if she left at 7. so the managers took my shift and switched it with her. as angry as i am, i can't really do anything. doesn't my life just suck? i figure if i could just get away from the two of them, i'd be okay. the bad part is all my friends are friends with my best friend and work with his girlfriend...what do i do now?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? brokenagain answered Monday December 5 2005, 12:28 pm: First I would like to apologize for the wait. I have been off here for a couple days and i did not want to just give you a quick answer. It is normal she would get mad because another girl is putting her 2 sense into something--its ok you said your piece and he needs to at least respect that and if he cant or wont let him be he will realize it for himself.l It just shows that you are the mature one and they have growing up to do. You did what you thought was best and the right thing to do. Your a good person for caring and they will realize that one day. Dont beat your self up over it, If she is desperarte than she has issues not you.Lay low for awhile if it hurts. it will work itself out. As for work just concentrate on that you should never quit because of other people. your job is more impotant then anything. I am still with you,and as for your friend lieing eventually they will figure her out and she will not have a job if it gets real bad. but in the end you will still have your job. Just try to keep things on a work level and you do you--dont worry about anyone else and you will get where you need to be and succeedd. It seems to me that you are the only mature one here--everyone else needs to grow up alittle. Hope all is going better keep me inmformed and again i am sorry for the delay. I will try to get back to you quicker. ggod luck. [ brokenagain's advice column | Ask brokenagain A Question ]
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