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im soo confused
soo everyone thinks im soo pretty and stuff..but then i look in the mirror at myself and think..what the hell? im soo ugly how can i be so ugly! and then i think of all the GORGEOUS girls out there and i get so jealous of them. Im 15 and ive never had a boyfriend before, and so why does everyone say im so gorgeous when no boy likes me? i really dont get it. it makes me SUPER sad. Ugh and then there is this boy in my class and he is like SO POPULAR but he kinda flirts with me..but then im not soo popular so i think..nah he is like pushing me and like playin around with me because he hates me and thinks im stupid and annoying. i dont start talking to him unless he talks to me..and when he flirts (or i think its flirting) i do it back. i dont want to admitt to anyone that i have somethin going for him because i know for a fact that he doesnt like me because im ugly and i dont have sex and get drunk like he does and the popular girls. HIGH SCHOOL SUCKS SOO BAD i cant stand the girls =( i get so jealous wayy to easily. i dont know do you have any advice for my situation? if you do THANKS A TON!
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You probablly are so pretty, but you just see different. All girls are self concious but I mean you have some confidence. You DO NOT have to be drop dead gorgeous to have a boyfriend. It's not because you are ugly.. which I think you are the only one who thinks that. When people tell you that you are pretty, take it as a compliment. It's a good thing. Don't think so low of yourself because that's how people might start to think you are starving for attention. Just accept yourself for who you ARE and don't try to change your imagine. How do you know that this guy hates you and thinks you are annoying, or is that your imagination talking?? If he said that straight forward to you then okay, but if not then he doesn't think that way. If he flirts with you, don't start to think negative. " Why would he want to flirt with me? I'm so ugly " Maybe you should listen to those people who tell you that you are pretty. I bet you are. Just say thanks and the more you learn to love yourself and your image, the more your self-esteem will build up and you will be much happier. The reason why you might not of gotten a boyfriend isn't because of your looks! You just have to find a guy that's really nice and introduce yourself to a lot of people. Are you shy? Just be fun and flirty. Don't comare yourself with other girls though because in the end you will ALWAYS think someone is better then you. Most girls do this. Don't be jelous of what they have because you might have something better. Don't allow your high school years to be bad. Have as much fun as you can and don't worry so much!
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