Mk, well i went out with this guy,(lets call him Josh) he is the sweetest, most amazing guy i've ever met in my life! he was the best thing taht has ever happened to me, and i can swear upon that, but he broke up with me. He said that he didnt think i was ready for a serious relationship that he wanted, and when he had told me that i was willing to do anything in my power to prove to him i could. But i was convinced i'd never get him back. so i was tryin to forgit about it. that weekend (one day later) i went to my best friends, she was determined to git my mind off of him and so we went to the movies. had the best time. that nite we were talkin to some of our friends. they asked us out and we said yes. because we just thought it was soo cool that best friends were going out with best friends.It had gotten my mind off of Josh. but i still couldnt help but think about him. we had only gone out for two mothns i had fallen for him. and fallen bad! well two days later he tells me he wanted to try and git me back. but i told him that i was goign out with someone already.(call him Steven)(Josh and Steven were friends.but they rarley talked. so i never thought nothing of it.) well then Josh desiced ok well fuck you, and said some of the meanest things i can ever imgine. hurt me worse than i ever thought anyone could. about aweek later i broke up with Steven. in hoping i could git josh to atleast be friends with me. it worked. i fell even deeper for him wich sucked because he turned 18. which was NOT good! because im only 16 and so my dad doesnt approve. so it would be illegal for us to date...:'( so sadly i had lost him for good.(well atleast 2 more years!!) then me and my friend did soemthing VERY stupid. which got in me in serious troulbe. my dad thought it was Josh who had done this with me, which he wasnt, and so threatened to put josh in jail. so Josh says that he figured it was best for us just not to even be friends anymore. i was soo heartbroken. i had lost this boy Three times. in only a month. my heart had been broken so many times in so short time i figured i was threw with. well this is why im writing u for advice. How do i git him back? no as in dating but atleast as Friends..?? he hates me soo much. he as spread rumors about me being a whore and stuff (which isnt true) and so im 99.9% positive he caint stand me. and i've tried to appoligize and everything but he juist says no because he doesnt want me gitting him introuble. is ther anything i can do?? i've already talked to my dad. he says NO! and a BIG NO at that! so i've just run out of ideas....PLZ HELP im willing to do anything......
<3 Heartbroken...Again
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Blade answered Saturday December 17 2005, 5:56 pm: Sorry it has taken me so long to answer, I've been very busy. Well I would definately say "that sucks"...to the max. But as for getting him back, well I would just suggest that you don't. It seems to me that your relationship has caused and probably will cause more problems than you need/needed. The reason he said those mean things to you and spread rumors about you was because he was hurt by the fact that you were with Steven and not him, don't try and comprehend why because men are ignorant and stupid like that sometimes. If he truly wants to have a relationship of any kind with you he'll come back, and untill then dont worry about it. Keep living your life unaffected by these things, because they can only keep you down, hope everything works out.
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