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I am really close friends with this one guy. I can tell him everything but I feel like he thinks of me as a little sister. The thing is I wish we could be more. He is like the perfect guy! He is tall dark and handsom, he has ambitions set for him self, he is active in sports and at school! he is romantic and i feel like I can talk to him about everything! It got me thinking about how I could show him the real me! I started thinking and here is what i thought
Maybe I could save up and take him out to a really nice place for dinner and then a movie! But then Im thinking ok is that to dorcish? PLUSS he doesnt even think of me that way and he is way out of my leage!
Im not sure what to do.. Should I just forget about it and stay good friends with him?
sorry it was so long
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ok first off hunny NO one is out of your league... you can get any guy or any type of guy that you want if you work hard enough for him ... Try simply telling him how you feel about him..but dont get too brutal with your emotions cause you might scare him away... any we both know you dont want that ... after you have confided your feelings to him if he begins telling you that he Does Not feel the same way.. then dont be so worried about it ... agree to remain good friends and then maybe afterwards hell realize that he has some feelings for you too... (guys always have delayed reactions to EveryThing...!) but you never know ... maybe you come to find out he feels the same way.. but youll never know unless you try...
***Kayla...
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well, i say go for it!
how do you know doesnt think of you as more than just a sister? he could just be too afraid to tell you because he thinks, that you see eachother as brother and sister (hope you can fallow that lol)
**Hearts are broken by words left unspoken.**
if you 2 are such good friends, you can go right back to that.
"hey, listen, i like you, more than just friends, but before you say anything, if you don't feel the same way, thats fine, i dont want this to ruin our friendship, and i love being great friends with you"
or something.
i guess, just fallow your heart.
let me know how it goes.
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welll, i think just hanging out together would be just fine..you dont have to save up money and take him out somewhere nice.Just spend some 1 on 1 quality time with him..and maybe bring it up in convo...use the oh so famous line "do you think of us as being more than just friends?"be flirty...maybe even gather the courage to straight out say you like him. Take the gamble...life is a gamble...without ttaking chances your not living life. Rejection is hard trust me i know...so if you get rejected its ok! life is full of rejection..you gota keep going..let me know how it turns out :)
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If your close friends maybe thats all he wants to be or maybee he is shy. My advice would be to come out straight and just say Im starting/have feelings for you. I wouldnt save up to take him out because boys dont usually notice that sort of thing, maybee if you two just went to the movvies or hung out more as friends you will get and become closer. Remember if it doesnt work out you two can always go back to beng friends :)
Hope I helped
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