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break up or stick wit it?
okay my bf is normally this great guy that lives by so many morals.. i know.. hes told them so many times.. but recently hes been acting totally different.. and couldnt give the time of day.. me n his best friend (carrie-a girl) are friends too. but not as close ahve noticed tthat hes acting different.. and not himself.. hes been very mad and just closed in.. hedoesnt talk to her as much.. and normally gets mad when i try to fix things that i think are going wrong.. hes not very fun ne more.. and seems more like a hassell and i have more weight on my shoulders to carry in this relationship.. he doesnt really act liek were bf/gf.. he doesnt hold my hand or put his arm around me.. like he could care less.. idk waht to do.. should i stay together with him or break up with him>? help!
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***Hunny the best advice i can give you is just to talk to him about it... sit down with him and run through everything thats been on your mind.. and maybe you can even get your friend carrie involved with it too... because it seems to me that somethings going on with him that hes not sharing with you and i think you both need to find out what it is... and try to help him through it and/or sort it out with him... it always helps to get inside someones head and try to see things through their perspective..maybe he just needs someone he trusts to listen... you could be that person hes waiting for to help him make the break through he needs...
***Kayla...
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Wow you need to break up with him he seems so ignorant and don`t waste your time on someone who could careless about you when you can be spending time with someone that loves and cares for you ♥
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Deff. try to find out whats going on with him first.. I mean if you feel you`d be better off breaking up with him then i`d go for it.. But i think tryin to make it work out would be the best thing to do right now.. ♥ Dez
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Well, you probably don't want to give up until you at least have a chat with him about this. Ask him what is going on and if he gets mad, then you should start saying that you have no other choice but to end the relationship because hes being shut down toward you and won't help.
If there are problems with you and a boyfriend, you have to use communication. That is the only way to actually get somewhere. If you can't get anywhere, then it's time to start thinking about breaking up. To me, it sounds like you two maybe growing apart with your differences. His morals, and your effort to try to fix every little problem that goes on in relationships. I could be wrong though. Maybe hes dealing with a problem that he may not have told you about yet. There could be a lot of reasons why hes stopped the touching and the hand holding. Your job is to find out why. Talk to him, then go from there.
-TheTeenGirls
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