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not trusting friend
ok your rele good @ this you got that other prob. rite on the nail lol but yah neways ok i have this friend and i cant trust her at all. everything i tell her she goes off and tells one of my rele good guy friends. i cant do nething embarassing in front of her because she will tell the guy i was tellin you about earlier or my best guy friend ever(i call him my brother) lol but neways i dont no what to do because i want to talk to her about stuff but i dont know how to do it so i can feel like i can trust her with everything i tell her my other friends think this 2 and i mean she only listens to guys. they could tell her the exact same thing i tell her and she would only listen if a guy tells her. it drives me crazy!! do i talk 2 her about it or just let it go and not say nething just dont tell her stuff?
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Well, the thing is when people are like that talking to them won't make them change and it won't make them not gossip more. That's just the type of person she is. You really do need to talk to her and you shouldn't be all nice about it eather. She listens to guys because she thinks they're more serious. I don't know how to exactly explain it, but it's just that guys seem to make it seem like it's a big deal sometimes so don't say anything! Anyways, when you talk to her tell her that she is being really rude telling people stuff and that you wish you could talk to her about things. If I were you, I'd also tell her that she has a big mouth and needs to keep it shut if she wants to keep her friends. What she is doing to you and maybe your friends is really low and mean. Don't put up with it or ignore it because eather way she will keep doing it. If she has nothing to talk about, she will find something.
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