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Confused
ok so I have this really good guy friend and we recently started going out and I thought I liked him like that but I dont!! and its really akward when were together! and I cant talk like i use to with him! and I thought I want a boyfriend right now but I dont!!!! and so I dont know if I should stay wiht him or break up with him because I dont know if I should give him a chance!!! cuz he really likes me! I want to still be really good friends! I need advice
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I went through the same exact thing. I had this guy that was my really good guy friend and I started to like him and I wanted to go out with him and stuff and whenever we did, it just felt.. SO AWKWARD. I didn't like him like holding my hand and stuff cause I was so used to being his friend and nothing more and whenever he did that it felt weird so I was sorta quiet around him and he asked me what was wrong and I just explained to him everything and it turned out he felt the same and we broke it off but remained friends. And it's like it never even happened. We're still awseoem friends =] You shouldn't be with someone if you don't want to. It's not fair to him. I felt so badly whenever I didn't say anything for like, a week cause he'd still there and like talk to me like a boyfriend and I just sat there thinking in my head " ehhh I just wanna be friends!! " So you guys can be friends again, you just need to talk to him ( after hte break-up ) like it never happened and slowly everything will be like it never happened. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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wow, that sounds exactlly like my friend and her boyfriend... well i think that you should just tell him that you would like to be his friend more tha anything!
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The best thing you could do is be honest with him--it may hurt his feelings but your not happy and he needs to know its not him hat you thought you were ready and your not and before it goes any farther and you lead him on you need to break itoff but you want to remain friends that hes good people but you dont wanna hurt him. good luck
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