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about the break up...
Hey! you asked my about how me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up..and it's not personal so i'll tell ya! Ok well first of all, he hurt me sooooo many times..by not wanting to do anything with me on weekends, and sometimes he wouldn't even call me for the hole weekend!!!..By making me feel like he didn't like me..he only hugged me in school, god forbid anyone see him lay a hand on me!! We didn't have much in common, He felt like he had to call me or else I would get mad...and he would ask if we were talking long enough when he did call. Ik, you're probably thinking how did they stay together for soo long??! Well, all this started happening after about 10 months or so. He was perfect before that..which hurt me even worse because he all the sudden changed when I knew what he could be. So.. this other kid came into the picture when I about had it with my boyfriend. He seemed soo perfect for me, we had sooo much in common, we would talk for 2 to 3 hours a day, and his best friends is dating my bestfriend!! We met around april..may and my boyfriend ended up breaking up wtih me because my friend sent him a mean letter(ik I really thought that was dumb of him to break up with me over) . and this other kid was soo happy because he wanted us to be together. But I was soo sad about the break up...and I ended up getting back together with my boyfriend. So I kept getting to know this other kid and he waited 5 months, turning down other girls..just for me. And he didn't even know if he was going to end up being with me. But finally I broke up with my boyfriend because I knew that I coudln't stand anymore of what he puts me though and I also wanted to give this other kid a chance. So after about a week of me and my boyfriend being broke up I started going out with this kid. I did this so soon because I thought it would help me get over my ex boyfriend!! But now I feel like something is holding me back. soo yeah thats pretty much allll that happen! Sorry it's sooo long!
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Hey sweetie!
Aww, I'm so glad you wrote me back =D lol
&& I don't care that it's long at all! I asked what happened.
I'm so sorry to hear that! You seem so sweet!
You don't deserve that.. not at all.
But, when you think you're in love, you put up with anything... right?
So, no I wasn't really thinking "GEEZ, why is she with him" Because I know how that feels!
I think its great that you have a guy who knows how to treat you and you have stuff you can talk about, etc.
You really deserve that! TRUST ME!!
But, I think what your problem is, you're afraid to love again.
Because, you got hurt so much from your past boyfriend, that you're afraid that its going to happen again.
So, therefore, you're putting up walls and making yourself think "Don't fall in love again.."
I've done that, but this kid, wow, he seems so perfect for you!
Just give him a chance, take things slow.
See where everything takes you and what not.
You know the kid will go the same speed you want it to, he seems like he REALLY likes you.
Just try talking to him about it.
&& don't go back to your ex! (not saying you will)
I hope everything goes good!
And if you need anything else, leave a message in my inbox.
Keep me updated on things, if you would like =D
♥ Kourtney
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