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hey, well i like this guy.. ive liked him for a little over a year. when i first found out he liked me, it was through instant message..and we always used to talk on aim alot and stuff.. i hung out with him like 2 or 3 times.. talked on the phone with him and my friend who was good friends with him..and i considered him my friend. then he asked me out. and stupid me, i like freaked out and said no.. and i regret it to this day. we still talked online after that and stuff.. but now he has a girlfriend that he claims he "loves" and NEVER even talks to me anymore =[ but the thing is i'm REALLY shy..and i get all weird around guyss. so it would be weird just to like go up to him and start talking to him..i dont know what to do i really like him alott =[ any advice? thanks
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I don't think it would be "weird" to go up and start talking to him, at all. Why should it? You can never have too many friends. And just because he has a girlfriend does not mean you have to keep your distance just because you happen to be a female. I just hope that you place yourself in this girl's shoes (and imagine a boyfriend you truly care about).. that way you don't go about this with the ill intentions of breaking them up. You KNOW you would not want someone trying to come between YOU and YOUR boyfriend, so why would you want to do that to another girl, ya know? But as far as friendship wise, it's fair game. Go for it. :)
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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If you really like this guy and you want to be his friend again you HAVE to make yourself talk to him. I mean why be shy? I know that it's hard just to go up to someone, but think about it. You and him were good friends before all of this so I think you have the confidence to atleast say hi to him. If he likes his girlfriend a lot, then just try and get on the same level as you guys were before. The only thing that would make you feel better about this is if you actually talked to him somehow. Try online, school. In person is always the best way, but whatever is more comftrable for you.
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