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long distance and other sucktastic situations.
I regularly attend Episcopalian diocesan(basically, state-wide) youth functions. all of my friends there are very close-knit, though we see each other so rarely. there's lots of love. over the summer i fell into crush about a boy who i met at these, and although he lives 1 1/2 hours away, i've been able to hang out with him a good bit(it's slightly convenient). well, we've been talking for a few months, crushing on and off. i thought we'd finally decided that it was stupid-plus, he's obligated to be loyal to a girl who lives on the other side of the state; they've had connections for a long time. well this weekend we spent two nights in a church together, she wasn't there, and we ended up having a passionate.. "connection". most amazing kisses EVER. well we're very infatuated, and he's a really good person so of course he had to tell this girl who he's loyally obligated to, and she's really disappointed.. especially because she and i are friends too.. i love her to death.. well, he's basically in love with us both, and i'm basically in love with him, and i don't know what to do. she's amazing and i can't believe i'm hurting her. he needs advice too. please don't say confrontation. thank you for reading <3.
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Seems you all have a pretty bad deal. Neither of you girls is really close enough in location to him for him to really, really get to know either of you well. You can't get to know him real well either for that matter.
You all need to stay friends. Sooner or later if you communicate with him back and forth, one of you will outshine the other in some aspect.
Since it is long distance, I think you should all remain friends. One day, maybe one of you girls will pair up with him in the dating sense. Until then, there is no reason he can't get to know you both. I believe it will all work out in the end.
You should all date too. Don't pine away waiting for a decision. I know that isn't a wonderful answer, I think it is the only one for now though. :)
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