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Long-Distance and other sucky situations
I'm your favorite teenager. I regularly attend Episcopalian diocesan(basically, state-wide) youth functions. all of my friends there are very close-knit, though we see each other so rarely. there's lots of love. over the summer i fell into crush about a boy who i met at these, and although he lives 1 1/2 hours away, i've been able to hang out with him a good bit(it's slightly convenient). well, we've been talking for a few months, crushing on and off. i thought we'd finally decided that it was stupid-plus, he's obligated to be loyal to a girl who lives on the other side of the state; they've had connections for a long time. well this weekend we spent two nights in a church together, she wasn't there, and we ended up having a passionate.. "connection". most amazing kisses EVER. well we're very infatuated, and he's a really good person so of course he had to tell this girl who he's loyally obligated to, and she's really disappointed.. especially because she and i are friends too.. i love her to death.. well, he's basically in love with us both, and i'm basically in love with him, and i don't know what to do. she's amazing and i can't believe i'm hurting her. he needs advice too. please don't say confrontation. thank you for reading <3.
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ok. first of all no one can love two people at once, you always love someone in a different way or more. i think its pretty shady that you could do that to a friend who you claim to be really close to, but that's not the point. You need this guy to pick who he cares about more or you all will keep going in circles and eventually someone's gonna get really hurt. this doesn't mean he has to cut off everything with one of you girls, but he has to make up his damn mind.
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