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bestfriend and guy
okay, well i like this guy. well, too bad he likes my best friend right? she likes him too. and i try SO hard to be all like "oh, no its fine" but its not! its not at all! well ill tell you an example. i was sitting at the end of the swing thingy or whatever and she comes over and sits on his lap and like, SMIRKS at me! i dont know what i should do.. its so annoying and confusing.. and i just feel like i shouldnt even TRY to get a guy, yeah thats stupid but its true. and i hate crying but i cryed over him, that means i like him alot right? i wanna tell him&her that i hate them soo much but shes my best friend! and I just dont know what to do.. what should i say to him&her? pleasee help me.
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Well it seems like your "best friend" isn't being a very good friend at the moment. If she's sitting on his lap and smirking at you, she's practically rubbing it in your face and that's rude. But there's nothing much you can do. They like eachother =/ Just talk to her and explain to her how it upsets you sometimes whenever you see them two together and sitting on his lap and everything and just ask if they could not do that kind of stuff in front of you? =/ Because if it was you he liked and she was in your position, wouldn't you want her to let you and the guy date? So just let them date. They aren't going to be together forever. But if she keeps doing it, I might suggest getting a new best friend cause obviously she doesn't do a good job at being one =/ I hope I helped.
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MELii
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haha i'ts good that you controlled yourself when she smirked at you because if it was me i would've beat the crap outta her =) buttt anyways, tell her. seriously because he might have no idea you even like him soo he's not gonna try anything w/ you. tell him too. you have every right to. are they dating?? no..so you can do that, plus she doesn't seem like a great friend if she did that to you. talk to them about it. it'll help. i can't tell you what to say, but juss say how you feel at that time & it'll work out.
-hope that helped!♥
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