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Unfair?
I'm currently in a great relationship. My boyfriend understands me and we both come from the same religious backgrounds.
I personally am o-kay with heavy petting but when it comes it sex I would never even think of doing it.
He would never pressure me into doing anything that I wouldn't want to but I personally feel guilty for taking my liberties with him but when it comes to what he wants I won't budge.
It feels like a one way relationship and I have to admit I'm a very opinionated assertive kind of person.
Help?
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Well, if you are both okay with heavy petting, then you aren't taking liberities. Both of you want to do it and both of you are consenting to participate. You have nothing to feel bad about there.
As for sex, if you don't feel it's right for you, then you are under no obligation to have sex. If you clearly explain things to your boyfriend, the two of you might be able to come to a more clear and agreed understanding of what is physically right for your relationship - and what isn't.
If you both agree to a set of 'rules' or common ideas about sexual activity, then no one needs feel like they are controlling the relationship.
Best of luck.
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