Question Posted Thursday November 10 2005, 12:14 pm
okay. i have my best friend in the whole world & i can always count on her. but it annoys me sometimes because online she'll tell me like everything & her problems & it bugs me because i have it worse than her. & i hate having to listen to her online & all i do is reponds with "yeah, okay, oh" & when i try saying something about whats happeneing with me she doesnt care & like just keeps going about her. we get in pointless little fights times, & i'd die if i lost her... but i dont no what to do because i hate listening to her talk about stuff like that.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Teza answered Thursday November 10 2005, 12:21 pm: I'm not trying to be mean, but you are being selfish. She is your best friend and you are just saying you don't care about her problems and that you are sick of listening to her about it. That's not really nice. If you were her true best friend you would listen, care for her and try to help her out. Responding with "yeah, oh & okay" won't make it any different. She always tells you and trys to talk to you because you are her best friend, and that's what best friends do. You might think that she doesn't care when you try to talk, but trust me she does. If it really bothered you tell her to stop talking about her problems. That would be really mean, but you can't expect her to stop without telling her. If I were you I'd talk to her and tell her that you love her no matter what and that you do care for her & her problems, but it would be really nice if she also talked to you about yours. The only way this could be fixed is if you talk to her. ♥ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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