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hey v!! im so0 happy yu have an advice colum...but any way...i have this problem...my freind...(we will call her bob)...well bob doesnt like this other freind of mine (we will call her sam). but i like both of them...and then i think bob gets mad at me when i hang out wit her...but then sam gets mad when hang out wit someone else rather then her! and i want bob to see wut i see in sam,cause there really is so0me one nice in sam but bob doesnt see it lmao!! but any way help me out!!!
love...cj buddy...well no longer cj! lmao
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ok cj buddy ..well not really cj buddy but what ever ...haha ..im not sure if this is a real problem or u made one up to let me give advice in my collumn but ok i had the same problem some time ago ...actuly a very long time ago but none the less one of my friends ..wanted me to become friends with one of her friends so we could all be friends together but i thought that her friend did not like me so we stayed away from eachother until we realized we just dint like eachother because we thought the other person dint like us confusing but still...maybe sam and bob have a history of not likeing eachother ...if thats the case and they have always had problems with eachother maybe its best they stay away so they dont cause any more pain and problems for you ..but if they just dont like echother for a stupid reason then you should tell them how important it is to you that they become friends so that all you guys can hang out if sam gets madd when u hang out wit anyone else other then her she is gonna have some problems because you can not constantly be with one friend maybe bob doesnt see what you see in sam because you generally see the good in people over all i suggest you talk to them indavidualy about y they do not like one another and tell each of them how important it is to you ...but be prepaired because being in a friends really good friendship with more then one person takes time n its a bumpy road ...u should kno because uve seen plenty of them go down the drain or survive after troublesome times ...just a warning tho ..good luck cj buddy n e more problems you know were to find me xO
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