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what should i do if everytime me and my dude argue he really says some foul things and it hurts me?
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When you argue, you find out what he really thinks about you. And you find out how much he really values you when he says foul things to you. It depends on how often he says things to you. What you have to look at is your values. Do you value a man that has a foul temper with a foul attitude and words to match? Is he the man that has the values that you wanted in the "right man for you." If he isn't, then he is not the one for you and you should definitely consider ending it if he isn't the one with you. That is if he doesn't match your values. But you have to look at other things with your values as well. You have to think about how you want to be treated. And that's mental and emotional abuse. Are you tolerant of it? Let me tell you, no man is worth that. If they , even for once, think that they can get away with foul mouthing you, then they'll think that they can get away with something of far more importance. Something like physical violence. You may say that, he wouldn't hit me. But truth is, from my point of view, that these are the signs. Recognize them, resist them, and then decide what you'll do from there on. Don't forget, to evaluate your values and what you TRULY want for THE MAN THAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU. Don't waste your time on him, if he doesn't fit the criteria. If he doesn't fit the criteria, then you're only prolonging the time that you have to meet the right man for you. Thanx for asking me the question and sorry if it was long. Have a nice day.
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