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I know what i have to do-im afraid to do it b/c he was my life and maybe that was why he partially left--i did everything for him and not enough for me-and now he is not here and i am still doing it-to an extent-do you think i gave him too much and he couldnt handle that? he knows what he has and what he could of had but he chose to walk away. Why would someone do that? He knows i was good for him but yet he walked away. Why would someone do that?
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Admitting you know what has to be done is the first step.
Maybe he felt overwhelmed or smothered.
Maybe he saw that you needed to focus more on yourself, and leaving was the only way he knew how to get you to realize it.
Most of the time people walk away because there is something making them unhappy.
Confusion usually comes from having to choose between two things but not being able to make a choice. What is it he is confused about? That is the question. He has had plenty of breaks over the last few years. If he doesn't know what he wants by now, then he needs help, not you.
Begging him to come home will only make you seem desperate and clingy. This is a huge turn off.
I would be wary of the emotional roller coaster he has you on, though. It is not healthy and will only lead to self destruction. I have given you all the best advice I can. I do hope that things get easier for you as time heals your wounds.
Take care and good luck.
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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