In very general terms, a person will experience a building of excitement or pressure - this can be a sense that activity is 'leading' towards something.
Orgasm is that something. It is a release of that pressure, and it is also highly pleasureable.
It can be felt just in the genitals or in other parts of the body. It can be one big wave of feeling, several smaller waves of feeling, tingling, explosive....and on and on and on. Each person experiences them differently.
It may sound cliche, but if you've had an orgasm, then you would know it. It's a unique feeling, and if you're doubting whether it's happened, there's a good chance it might not have happened. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
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