I understand and sgree with you totally. I know i have to just let him have his space and try to move forward;its hard and ipush daily to try to get through the day. I did ask him if he thinks it would workout and he said :do oyu want an answer now?" and i said no b/c i knew the answer would be no. I still see him and talk to him but even when he says he loves me sometimes it sincere and sometimes i feel he says it just b/c i did first;however he has the mind of saying if he doesnt want to say something or do something he wont. So i dont know what to think. I just know we belong together but he needs space and time;but....again. i am so confused.
If you belong together, like you say, why is he making you feel this way?
You say he has the mind of saying he won't do or say things he don't want to. Does this apply in his every day life? Is he the kind of person who can say no?
I know it's hard to deal with this. Maybe, if you're not ready to let go, you should just start opening your eyes and look for better opportunities... Go out on your own, or with friends, and do activities without him. You might find out things about yourself you never suspected.
I'm not really sure if there was a question in your question. My last advice would be to do a little soul searching and ask you if you love him or if you need him.
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