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Question Posted Monday October 31 2005, 7:02 pm

13/ f ♥
ok i kind of have a couple things...

1. this might sound stuck up or bitchy but im not trying to sound like this. well i feel like whenever one of my friends like a guy the guy likes me (i dont know why i dont think im pretty or anything & im not trying to brag). & i feel bad because my friends are like crazy over them, it happened around 4 times... i just dont want to hurt my friends because i dont like the guys at all, im just friends with them.

2. sometimes i feel like a big flirt. like i kinda told this guy i liked him a little, & i did but now i dont anymore & were really good friends (i wouldnt be able to have anything with him bc my friend likes him) - so he though i liked him & wanted to like makeout & stuff but i dont. & at a party i was like siting by him & on his lap & kinda flirting with smiles & like stuff like that & all. and i kinda feel bad , i dont really know what to do.

3. at the party (the one up there), me & my friends decided that if guys can show there boxers then chicks can show there thongs - do you think thats sluty, because alot of the girls in our grade our prude& think were sluts & whores - but we;ve only made out & crap. but there all jerks.


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Teza answered Monday October 31 2005, 10:53 pm:
1- I know you aren't trying to hurt their feelings or make them feel bad, but why would you. If they like you, they like you. All girls don't think they are pretty, and I'm sure you are. He might really love your personality. Your friends should understand that it's not up to you to decide if someone likes you. But don't feel bad at all!

2- Being a flirt is nothing big!!! Some girls feel okward when they are or something, but I am and I can't help it. It's just part of my personality. Just do not feel bad!! Maybe you shouldn't of sat on his lap when you know your friend likes him. You need to tell him that you only like him as a friend or else he will keep thinking that you like him, which isn't good.

3- No, I don't think that is slutty. People obviously do not know what a slut it. It's just a stero type, but people will always be like that. At school, me & my friends asked the guys to show us their stomachs and stuff but that doesn't mean we're sluts. Those girls need to grow up and you shouldn't be worrying about them. They're jelous.

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