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I need Help!!
ok...My bestfriends Leigh and Michelle got into an arguement yesterday at school while i was out...well after school they both told me their side of the story but i dont know which one to believe and i feel like im stuck inbetween the two of them and now at school i have to make a choice with who i sit with and who i hang out with...They got into it again today at lunch and now michelle is mad because i didnt take up for her but i didnt say nothing to either of them because i dont want to get between them two what do i do?*Jess*
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say : srr guys i dont wanna mess up in this.i always have this said if both of my friends do the same believe me...it r mayb hard situation just act u dont care and say it
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It's hard to not get drawn in to other people's arguments when they tell you their sides of it and pressure you to support them, but it really will be better for all three of you if Michelle and Leigh sort this out amongst themselves. If you take sides then the third person feels ganged up on, and even when the argument is resolved betweeen the original two may feel resentful that you got involved against them.
If either girl complains that you aren't supporting them in the argument, stay calm and reassure them that you are still friends with them, you just don't want to add fuel to an argument and think it would be better if they sorted it out between themselves without getting more people involved. It might be a bit tense between the three of you whilst they sort it out, but it will return to normal far more quickly if you don't get involved than if you get involved trying to sort it out. All the best.
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just remain neutral and bug out like a roach whenever they get into it. there's really nothing else you can do, seeing as how you were not present for the original offense.
good luck
-guner
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Alright if i were you i would tell both of them that your not going to talk to them unitl they work it out and tell them you dont want ot bbe in the middle but you do want to help as much as you can .
hope i helped if you have any mroe questions you can leave it in my inbox
~*Deb*~
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