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I usually answer questions but this is important! I have a friend *sorta* (We have been friends for 13 years and we tore appart due to her being popular). Well anyway she has a cousin Sarah. She has been coming to my friends house and when she goes up there she invites her boyfriend and they sit up there and make out. But my friends boyfriend comes to (Thats Sarahs boyfriends brother *sorry if confusing*). And I am afraid she is having sex with him. Her mom acts more like a best friend than a mom. Her mom and dad are split (they have been since she was born and her dad loves her to death!). So her mom is turning her against her dad and trying to make him feel guilty! *My sister and her dad are married* So Whats a girl to do!?!?! I can;t just sit here and watch her get Pregnant! she is just 12!!!
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well yeah you definetly need to say sumthing! have you talked to your mom maybe your mom could have a talk wit her mom and tell her that she needs to grow up and stop acting like her daughters best friend and be a mother! i mean yeah its okay for your mom to be there too as a friend(scariness) but she also needs to be a mother and take some responsibilities and actions! first she needs to set some rules down for her daughter and tell her that she is not ready for sex and that sex is shared wit someone you love, its not a game!! after this you need to be a friend and ask her if she been sleeping around wit your man! if you need any more help leave one in my inbox or im me at T3RRI2010!!! buh bye!!! ♥ terri!!!
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Well, most people would agree that 12 is a young age and not a very likely age to be having sex, but it is possible that her cousin and her cousin's boyfriend and/or her boyfriend are influencing her to want to do it, or she might just want to all on her own. Even though her and her mom are like best friends, I don't think that her mom would be telling her to do that or giving her any ideas. The only way to really find out without sounding crazy is to just bring him up casually the next time you spend time together. Say, so how's your boyfriend and then she will respond. After she responds say is he a good kisser, and then laugh like your saying it almost to be funny. Then, she'll either say yes if they have kissed, or she'll tell you that they haven't. If she says yes, be like cool and then ask her what base she's gone with him without being too nosey. Chances are, she probably hasn't done that with him because making out and having sex are two TOTALLY different things, and if she has had sex with him she most likely would have used a condom. If you need any more help please leave a message in my inbox! Hope I could help!
-Mal <3
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