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Slump City
sup?
recently nothing in my life is going well. I'm used to being an A student, but thats changing. I'm doing terrible in most all my subjects excluding english. As for a social life, all of my friends are dropping like flies with no reasons about why. My family is driving me crazy. The want me to be as obident as someone out of little house on the praire. I just don't like my dad, i never really have, and i treat him with respect in public, but at home we are all different. Sometimes i think about ending it all. I know i won't because i'm the biggest chicken you'll ever meet, but i think about it often now. By my school there is this big hill and i find myself staring at it too much. I know that i'll never tell my friends about my grades because i suppose i'm too prideful for that. so what i'm asking you is how do i make it out of this slump in one piece, quite literally.
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TO: Slump City
first off i would reallie like to apologize for my lazy behavior in that i havent checked my inbox for a month and so this reply is extremely late. hopefully not too late.
i think i understand how you feel. at times, my world seems to go upside down as well and certain ideas pop up in my head that i know i shouldnt do. first of all, as little help as this sounds, keep your chin up. there is reason for everything, even if you dont believe in religion.
second, talk your problems out. pride can be hurtful and putting on a fake mask is worse than letting everything out. if your pride is reallie all that great, carry around a journal or a "thought book" and write everything out. thats what i do. it helps burn all the anger or depression and, if only a little, lifts some weights off your shoulders.
as for your friends, if theyre dropping away from you then make new ones. schools are big and so there will always be new people to meet. friends who leave yoo arent reallie your friends at all.
for your family there reallie isnt much i can say. you can try talking it out or letting them know because if they dont know then how can they fix themselves? otherwise, on the reallie bad days, just think about turning eighteen. i know some people who have a count down to when their eighteen and able to leave the house.
speaking of leaving the house...if your social life is in ruins then concentrate more on your grades and FORGET about your social life. as soon as you escape your trouble at home then you can create a whole new social life.
hint: the easiest way to leave the house without causing a family feud would be college so always have that option open in clear, like a back up plan.
well thats about all i have to say.
im not sure if anything is helpful but i hope SOMETHING in gettting this makes you feel better.
again i would like to apologize for the delay in the return of this response. i like yourself have been having troubles of my own and havent had much of a chance to check on this website.
if ever you're reallie down in the ground
you can IM me sometime: xolilmspiggieox
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